Undertones of Explicit Judgment and Unconscious Motivation

[Nymph]

A video is worth the thousand words I'd have to type.
I cover a lot in this video and things probably are not what they seem anyway. This in regards to the second time a comment has been made in Discord that I am judgmental. I do take that to heart because deep down I really just want people to like me. I tried to clarify. This community and all communities around typology are a tough crowd, so we will see.
https://youtu.be/49IRDdcS6MA

[GreenCoyote]

@CourtJester
Very well put.
I was going to make this video and it is looking like it came at the perfect time. Altered it a bit to fit this topic but I do share information on how Ni affects Se from interaction. I also agree with you that Ni doms are very rare (I know that's a stereotype about them but I think its true).
https://youtu.be/rRiqeS3u6YY
Also would like to let you know that I think you are very delicate and aware of my moods at least, and I have not yet felt offended. Even times when I felt offended a little it was good for me because after the interaction I realized it wasn't meant to be offensive and just meant to alter perspective and push me in a better/healthier direction.
 

[Faeruss]

I am sorry to hear that you are feeling unfairly judged, @jay. For the record, I have no problem with you. I know I have some propensities towards being judgmental, or patronising, but I hope they have not reared their ugly heads too much in our interactions. As you say in your video, I too say the truth, or at least I strive to, and I am not afraid of telling people if I think they are wrong. I try to do this in the best spirit, to lift everyone up, and not to prop myself up, but I may sometimes fail. The church Fathers tell us that God seems angry at times, think here of the Old Testament, Sodom and Gomorrah, etc, not because He is vengeful or anything of that nature but because He loves us, and wants the best for us, and will not tolerate us straying from the straight and narrow path. You are not angry with the child of another family for becoming a drug-addict, say, but you certainly are with your own. Perhaps such framing of criticism as embedded in love, love for the higher and for life, is best.

[Faex]

Beautiful words, @faeruss.

[GreenCoyote]

Here is a follow up of my experiences with Se, posting it here to follow up with the last video.
 
https://youtu.be/HxHhWEGJOGo

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