@elisaday

If I recall correctly you were typed originally as a FiSe, so I suggest considering TiSe as a real possibility. The degree of similarity between the introverted and extroverted types of the same quadra has been woefully underestimated, especially now with the advent of the development levels. Then at least you would have all the right…Read more

@elisaday - but at some point you said you felt you could be a Ti lead. I hope I got that right. I can't remember the thread where you said it.

Now, to be clear, I did not see her videos but since :

- NiFe is far from FiNe but TiNe is pretty close;

- she said she identifies with Ti description;

- she says people told her her voice is soothing…Read more

@faeruss @supahprotist @elisaday - now I have three members vying for the NiFe role. It's a hotly contended type. But you can't all be right!

@gust help! be my referee!

Well this is utterly baffling.

Also, I'm sorry, I wasn't trying to imply dumbness on the part of anyone, but hoping to outline common misconceptions that might be the cause. But from what you're saying, these don't really apply to your situation.

I'm open to the possibility that there is a misread but it would have to be a really really weird…Read more

This makes sense...just thinking about Ne & Si leads I know, I've seen a complex array of relationships between the two polarities in different people.

I hadn’t thought about how an Si-lead would experience their conscious, but polar, Ne’s exploration. You seem like an interesting case study in this regard. I wonder what @meta might have to say…

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1) Jness – Nah, it wasn’t this for me. Back about 15 years ago when I only knew about dichotomies I had always typed myself as a P type. After learning about Socionics I understood functions and Ni as a Pi type. They are described as more go-with-the-flow while the Ji types are more rigid. Since I’ve always been viewed and described as an easy…Read more

@faerie

Pursuing my dreams has now become a necessity: No job and no white knight in sight. I think I kinda put myself in this position to sort of trick myself (psychologically) to taking the leaps and risks I’d been afraid of taking for decades.

Brave!

And also, this is ironically exactly what will attract the right person to you. If you put y…Read more