@bera, I had written a long post but decided to gut it because I realized it was TMI for the forum (more like dischord material). Anyway, I've had to accept that yes, there is hatred within, however unpalatable and unflattering that is. It is not easy to name it as such because it comes disguised as resentment, injured feelings, going…Read more

@fae - and what happened ? Did you forgive them?

I don't have a lot of hatred within. I am in a period of my life in which I mostly focus on becoming a better version of myself, so I try - sometimes very hard :)) - to not judge anyone. I must work on myself and others can just mirror aspects of myself I haven't yet solved...but they can not solve…Read more

I didn't mean it was dark because of the sexual part.

I had a realization while listening to a song, haha. I will try to break it down but this morning I had a new realization - that this might be true for Sp/Soc who is also Se lead. Maybe it is not generally right.

First the song :

I found it…Read more

Fi - My relationship with my Fi has been volatile, manifested in a black and white manner which bleeds into my relations with loved ones. I've always been attuned to my own self-expression and I'm always finding ways to fine tune my mode of expression in the way that I see fit. I frequently philosophize about my inner essence, what that actually…Read more

As a side point, I would propose that sexuality and sensuality aren't "dark" in and of themselves. What's dark is giving yourself away out of desperation, or using your sexuality to manipulate others in a dishonest fashion.  However, exploring one's sexual and sensual tastes, sharing them in love and art, is not 'dark' - on the contrary, it is…Read more

@bera

I don't have any particular care if a description is dark or light, personally. I just want to see the basic mechanisms covered in a way that makes sense to me, or matches my personal experience of myself and other Se leads in reality.

From all these threads, and the input and people correcting me on my own misconceptions, I'm starting to…Read more

I really can't see Ne/Si nor Ti/Fe. She doesn't have Ti pupeteer hands like Krasinski, also there's Se eye toggling and Ni eyebrow rising that seem very obvious to me. Also she's similar to Sophie Turner whom I believe is an FiSe too.