>With Alphas, I often feel like ripping off my skin and showing them my bare heart just so they remember to find their own.

I've felt this impulse with anyone I perceive as being too detached (any quadra). I relate. But it's also a violation of sorts. I feel both impulses. But I also relate to a lot of what HRAFN said. I deeply internalize things…Read more

Just yesterday I was doing metta on myself, a romantic interest, and people I'm trying to forgive from throughout my life (from jobs, schools, friendships, etc), and the target was the "hatred within".

I’ve never related to the stereotype about Alphas being inherently detached, and in fact this characterization has always kind of irked me. First of all, I don’t find it particularly true. I’m squeamish about gruesome/painful medical situations because my mind creates vivid enactments of those sensory experiences. I’ve actually struggled in acad…

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And actually, the final thing I’ll say here, about my own experience, is that in my day-to-day interactions, the biggest, most noticeable differences I experience between myself and other people are not Quadra differences, or even EQ differences, but basic P-lead vs. J-lead differences. This is a big generalization to make—and it’s defin…

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@rondo - I love your poem !!! <3

Did you write others too?

Please write more of them !

I think NeTi and NeFi are my favorite types ! You guys are so fun and original, I love your ideas.

Yes, I really think it should follow rules. The other person should have a safeword. :)))

Elsie nice summery at the bottom. I should read this stuff early in the morning.

I got Se, Ti, N/A, Ni active... so soo not grown up at all!