@Animal

My family mocks me for missing what’s right in front of me…. this has been an ongoing joke in my family.

Exactly ! I simply don't see many things that are right in front of my nose. And I think I am still looking at them in a focused way. But I am mostly thinking about something completely different, that has no connection to what is in…Read more

I have been trying to find some Se-leads to try and get a better grasp of what Se-dom looks like. Came across an interesting one that's relevant here, seeing as his job is to literally break down the potentially lethal movements of the human body systematically in order to ensure a fair and safe playing field for professional fighters:

Herb Dean…Read more

When I am ‘in the (Se) flow,’ I don’t see the world around me as separate items. There is no distinction made between items, because.. flow. Making any sort of assessment of things puts me out of the flow.

YES. THIS.

I mostly glace at things, I rarely take them in deeply. I stare a lot. Ji lead, I know, but still...

I am more attuned to movement in my environment than to noticing and remembering concrete objects.

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I only really notice 'stuff' around me when I am in observer mode, meaning that I am then engaged in analysis of my environment. Judging, not…Read more

My focus is not that good. If it’s inward, it can’t also be outward. So, when talking and thinking, I rarely see or acknowledge I see stuff from the room I am in.

This is, to me, "focus" and "flow," which Auburn outlined quite well. I don't agree with what he said about Se people saying "this person moved like this, put their arm here, and the…Read more

@Bera
I agree with you. I do have intense focus, but it's more like tunnel vision. Like I take in an over-saturated version of what matters and block out everything else.

My family mocks me for missing what's right in front of me.... this has been an ongoing joke in my family.  Also, I recently played a drawing game with Ivory & my FeNi friend -…Read more