@sierrarose ... when the situation warrants it.
ah gymnastics. that time where throwing greek discuses at ppl became banned and then dodgeball became banned and then javelins became banned until finally all there was left to do was wrestle ppl outta chalk circles. then chalk banned
I have often been very harsh and moralistic. It's one thing I've…Read more

@sierrarose You're right, thanks for this reminder. I think I also tend to be extra irritable with my kids because they are around so often and asking for my attention so often. As an FiNe, I'm an introverted person whose default state is basically being in my own head. Extraverting takes an energetic toll. So having what sometimes feels like…Read more

Fay, I definitely understand. I don't know if you watched my latest typing video, but I mentioned being very irritable. My husband and son agreed. Fi is a judging function. Even as a seelie Fi user, I have often been very harsh and moralistic. It's one thing I've really had to work on. Being harsh, impatient, rigid, having unrealistic expectations, etc.

Interestingly, I'm not sure that being unseelie translates to being thick-skinned, or at least it doesn't for me. I was always a thin-skinned sensitive kid, and I still am as an adult. I know the whole seelie vs unseelie thing is a spectrum though, and I seem to recall from my report that I'm not super far over on the unseelie side, so maybe…Read more

This was funny. I might just go around commanding people to "get outta ma bawx!" from now on 😀

I was a very thin-skinned, sensitive, seelie kid (aka kinda wimpy) and I distinctly remember one lesson from gymnastics. I didn't have enough force to do this kick up maneuver to propel my body around the bar. Or, I didn't think that I did. My coach…Read more

@fayest42 shortest video i could find to get the point across.
i go around teaching ppl how to speak from their diaphragm for a living (jk lol). it's amazing how some ppl just puff nothing out. just stand straight chest out speak jeezus.
dont feel down just be a strong force, i think kiddos need that, especially now with recent/current events.…Read more

@elsie Wow, this is hilarious and kind of amazing. It's in some ways intuitively obvious - the low, loud voice indicates some level of aggression that makes you think that if you don't obey, the person might hurt you. Whereas the soft high voice seems to communicate that there won't be any repercussions for disobeying. But it's amazing to see it…Read more