@metaphysique - Lux Aeterna was one of those songs that really struck a cord with me too, when I first heard it. I must have replayed it a hundred times during that time period. It was in my playlist next to another dramatic song I like called "Death is the road to Awe" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C3skXjCmvVc from the Fountain movie. I've seen…Read more

@sierrarose ... when the situation warrants it.
ah gymnastics. that time where throwing greek discuses at ppl became banned and then dodgeball became banned and then javelins became banned until finally all there was left to do was wrestle ppl outta chalk circles. then chalk banned
I have often been very harsh and moralistic. It's one thing I've…Read more

@sierrarose You're right, thanks for this reminder. I think I also tend to be extra irritable with my kids because they are around so often and asking for my attention so often. As an FiNe, I'm an introverted person whose default state is basically being in my own head. Extraverting takes an energetic toll. So having what sometimes feels like…Read more

Fay, I definitely understand. I don't know if you watched my latest typing video, but I mentioned being very irritable. My husband and son agreed. Fi is a judging function. Even as a seelie Fi user, I have often been very harsh and moralistic. It's one thing I've really had to work on. Being harsh, impatient, rigid, having unrealistic expectations, etc.

Interestingly, I'm not sure that being unseelie translates to being thick-skinned, or at least it doesn't for me. I was always a thin-skinned sensitive kid, and I still am as an adult. I know the whole seelie vs unseelie thing is a spectrum though, and I seem to recall from my report that I'm not super far over on the unseelie side, so maybe…Read more