Spaceman replied to the topic Who are you, really? The puzzle of personality | Brian Little in the forum General Psychology 7 years, 8 months ago
I do know people who swear up and down that they have certain personality traits. Usually for the typical reasons i.e. they're introverted because they feel like antisocial weirdos, they're intuitive because they don't want to be boring, they're thinkers because they don't want to be stupid or are capable of complex analysis, etc etc.
This Brian…Read more
Animal replied to the topic NeFi's with Social Anxiety in the forum General Psychology 7 years, 8 months ago
Yeah - I'm not NeFi, but PeFi - and I'm often seen as "shy weird artist." I'm intensely open and present when the conversation is real, but in other situations, even my introverted friends have critiqued me for being so incredibly closed off. According to some, I "don't even try."
I don't have anything to say, oftentimes, because I'm no good at…Read more
Juan E. Sandoval replied to the topic NeFi's with Social Anxiety in the forum General Psychology 7 years, 8 months ago
ETA – lol, I just noticed I’m not the first to respond to the book example first XD
Heh! I'm glad the book example has been picked apart - as it should be.
Shoot, I realized now I was way too general with it, but now I'm seeing in what ways. I can totally see how reading for an Ne-lead would be like that too. I suppose the nuance I was tryi…Read more
Shelley Lorraine replied to the topic NeFi's with Social Anxiety in the forum General Psychology 7 years, 8 months ago
So to give a behavioral example, cognitive introversion might seen in the act of reading a paragraph of a book and needing to sit there mulling over that paragraph for an hour to try to grasp how it fits into one’s existing framework or shapes it in subtle ways. Extroversion would be the act of breezing through the whole book in a few hours due t…
Spaceman replied to the topic NeFi's with Social Anxiety in the forum General Psychology 7 years, 8 months ago
Are any of you NeFi’s with social anxiety? What’s it like having a combination of natively proactive energy, but difficulties interfacing with people?
Well, I don't find that I have a lot of natural proactive energy. As a young child, I played outside and rough-housed a bit with some of the neighborhood kids, but by the time I was 7 years old or…Read more
