- Type: SeFi
- Development: ll--
- Attitude: Seelie
I’m not sure if I should respond to this thread, since my Fi and Te are not conscious…I just wanted to say I can see this in myself too…now, I obviously need a strong and organized person/ part of myself to protect my Fi. And there is no one, literally no one (except for Animal 🙂 ) who is filling that White Knight role in my life, so, yeah, my Te has to do it. It’s a survival thing.
And I also have this strange tendency of looking for …princesses to defend. It’s weird as hell because it’s not a very feminine way to act. And it’s also not effective enough, since my Te is not conscious. It is an endeavor I mostly fail at. And also, if my defense is gone somewhere else, my Fi remains a bit exposed. I don’t have enough white knights at my disposal to protect both myself and the people who might strike me as needing help. I think I need a better strategy for this. :))
I also have to admit I don’t really care for the social implications that much. I try to manage them but only in a very broad sense and usually also fail at that.
It is an area of self improvement indeed, because I am very bad at it. 🙂