- Type: SeFi
- Development: ll--
- Attitude: Seelie
I have to try it ! I become rigid on purpose during meetings at the office but in that case I am adopting a Je posture rather than Ji.
I also use Ni zone outs on purpose to avoid people who want to give me flyers or to ask for money on the street. So basically I Se them coming to me and instead of focusing on them or doing friendly Se toggles, I defocus and look straight forward with no focal point, lowering my eye lids. They never bother me when I’m doing this !
Oh, dear, this sounded like a stingy attitude but I don’t think it’s fair to be stopped again and again for different stuff that isn’t my problem. I really think people should be allowed to contribute how they choose and not be shamed into giving their time and money to someone they don’t know and appreciate. 🤔 I hate to feel obliged to give without a clear purpose in mind.
Anyway, I will totally try the Ji posture when I’m surrounded by people and check if the environment becomes more alive.